Dating an Aphantasic: Relationships and Nonvisual Love

When my girlfriend leaves the house and I think about her, I can’t see her face, all I see is black. Conjuring up an image behind closed eyes just isn’t possible. I still know that I know what she looks like but I can’t picture her. Weird right? My mind’s eye is blind and it’s [...]

How To Transform Your Demons and Take Control of Your Inner Life

As a little kid I had a constantly running inner voice vying for my attention. It was soft spoken just like me—barely audible. I just wanted to be seen, understood and trusted. I wanted to be able to be myself but that’s not how things turned out. That inner voice grew up with me, telling [...]